Ephesians 4:32 ESV

Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

Four Characteristics of Biblical Forgiveness
Biblical forgiveness is not a cheap term you just throw around that instantly makes everybody feel better. Thats not real forgiveness. The Bible says there are four characteristics to biblical forgiveness: Forgiveness is remembering how & Continue reading Four Characteristics of Biblical Forgiveness
The Full Extent of Forgiveness - Guidelines Devotional
Bible Text: Ephesians 4:32 | Speaker: Dr. Harold J. Sala | Series: Guidelines For Living Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:32 Archibald Hunter says that forgiveness is surrendering my right to hurt you because you have hurt me. Not exactly, says Richard Smith, saying that this is too easy because we let the offender off the hook. Richard is a missionary and counselor who has made a lifetime study of cultures and relationshipshow people relate to each other. Richard and his wife Connie recognize that forgiveness is importantvery important, but they are also convinced that a lot of people mouth empty words of forgiveness, glossing over acts of wrongdoing at the very time they hold on to bitterness in their hearts. Forgiveness means releasing the other person from your judgment and trusting God to handle it, even to the point of extending mercy, if that is His choice, writes Richard. Are both men saying the same thing, simply using different words? Or is there a basic difference? Im convinced that a lot of people make a stab at forgiveness but simply gloss over the severity of wrongdoing and the consequences of sinful actions which have been directed against them as a victim. Knowing that Jesus said we must forgive each other if He, in turn, forgives us, they say what they think they are supposed to say. We make statements like, After all, hes just human. Or, Well, it was your fault just as much as it was mine. Sometimes we ignore the problem which continues to fester and grow, saying, Well just not talk about this any more because every time we get into a discussion about this, we both get angry and say things we shouldnt say. After I spoke on the importance of forgiveness, a woman told me about the brutal murder of her son. The youth who had killed her only son was sent to prison, yet her heart was filled with rage. After all, the victim was her only child, and he had tragically been denied a chance to grow up. He had been cut down in his youth, unfairly and unjustly. Of course she was angry. Yes, she was also a Christian. Yes, she knew mentally she had to forgive. She had the solution in her head. But she just couldnt do it. The more she thought and prayed about it, the more she began to see the issue from Gods perspective. She knew she couldnt gloss over the murder. What had happened was horrible. Not just to her son, but to her as well. Some way, she began to realize vengeance wasnt her responsibility. It was Gods. And thats when she began to realize God had to deal with the murderer and she believed God would do just that. But the kid in prison doesnt know about God, she thought. Did she confront her sons murderer? No. She chose instead to send him a Bible with a long letter, explaining how she felt, telling him that God whose Son cried out, Father, forgive them for they know not what they do as He was being crucified would also forgive him as well. Dont do this, the warden at the prison urged her. Youre wasting your time, he added. But she did. And when I did that, she said, the burden lifted and only then I could forgive him. Richard is right. Forgiveness means releasing the other person from your judgment, putting the perpetrator of wrong in Gods hands, allowing God to do whatever He chooses to do, whether it is to extend mercy to him or to exact the full measure of judgment, which is His right to donot yours. Im convinced it is more than just giving up my right to hurt you because you hurt me. It means trusting God to handle the situation, leaving it to Him who alone knows the hearts and the weakness of the flesh. That is what real forgiveness is all about. Nothing less will do. Resource reading: Ephesians 4.

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